mardi 9 juin 2009 00:02
anyways, since NICOLE LIM just reminded me, so i shall talk about this then.
how does one judge how close friends really are to each other?
i am not sure about you people out there, but for myself, i judge it close when i decide to disclose secrets, and indulge in heart-to-heart conversations at times.
in a way, that's how i tell these people that i value them as close friends. you may not know my favourite food, my favourite hang-outs, but if you do know a secret or two of mine, you are a close friend.
and in a way, when these people choose not to let me know about their issues, be it woes or happiness, i take it that you do not value the closeness of the friendship.
i understand how some people choose not to talk about problems, as it just makes them sad when they talk about it. but i don't understand how one could not share the joy of being in a relationship. as to having me find out on my own, or to hear it from someone else, i guess it jsut puts me off.
during work i was upset, not just because i was sick, but because you chose to change the topic. maybe we really aren't that close after all.
i don't know if you really do make people feel as though you have fallen for them, but you do make people feel that you value close friends. in which, for the first time in my life, my intuition failed me.
enough about things not worth my time. back to the more important things to do.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY EDWIN HUANG BAO BAO!
seriously cant wait for this sunday where i can meet my beloved bunch of ex-ex-colleagues and HAVE FUN! :)
Libellés : :(, :), ALFRED, BEST FRIENDS, BIRTHDAYS, BOSSINI, explosions, photos, work
